i want people to know i’m struggling but i don’t want people to know i’m struggling do you see my problem
Super incredibly maddening thing about mental illness:
Fighting your ass off to live a normal life and function as well as you can, and instead of getting credit and having people be proud of you for all the efforts you’re making, having people use your apparently normal behavior as a reason to invalidate you and think you weren’t that sick to begin with.
It takes a lot of badassery to act this normal, but the effort is all invisible
so are we gonna discuss how fucked up it is that women have to wear makeup to be taken seriously at work and job interviews but if a woman has a genuine interest in and enjoyment of cosmetics she is written off as shallow, vain, and stupid, and consequently not taken seriously
I like my women how I like my men.
That’s the joke.
I am bisexual.
"what inspires you?" is the hardest question to answer ever. especially in a professional setting. Damon and puns and elephants and floral print… I CAN’T MAKE A PORTFOLIO OUT OF THIS.